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The narcissist Question Your Sanity By Gaslighting — When you are dealing with a narcissist, you might have noticed that narcissists like to engage in gaslighting. They prefer this kind of manipulation because it helps them to ignore reality in a way that makes them question themselves and their experiences. Some of the obvious examples of gaslighting can…

Let’s Find Out — When someone is feeling hurt or humiliated, they might use defensive behaviour. The person might feel good about himself/herself temporarily but over the long term, they usually feel worse. What are the signs that someone is defensive? Although it’s not easy to identify defensive behaviours, however, there are some obvious signs that can help us to recognize defensive…

How To Develop Self-Confidence Like Wednesday Addams — The moment I saw Wednesday, I was fascinated by her confident personality. The way she navigates through everything confidently can be a great example for those who feel a little bit different. Obviously, it’s not that simple to develop confidence the way Wednesday makes it appear. But, she developed a…

Understanding Narcissistic discard in the context of a narcissistic relationship — When a narcissistic person ends their relationship with you, it is called narcissistic discard. To understand narcissistic discard, it might be helpful to know about the stages of narcissistic relationships. According to Dr Daramus, there are four stages of narcissistic relationships. For instance, i) Appreciation ii) Depreciation

Signs Of Manipulative Behavior: How To Tell If Someone Is Trying To Manipulate You — A person can use manipulation either deliberately or unconsciously. As manipulation is a human tendency, everyone is guilty of engaging in it at some point. So, how can you identify manipulative behaviour? Let’s find out some of the obvious signs of manipulation: Someone taking advantage of your vulnerabilities for their…

Let’s find out — The nature of obsessions in OCD people can be different from one person to another, however, there are some common elements among OCD sufferers. For instance, 1) Contamination The obsession with contamination can be with dirt, germs, bodily fluids, disease, environmental contaminants, or chemicals. 2) Harm People who are obsessed with causing damage may…

The Psychology Behind The Defensiveness Response — Emotion and behaviour both can be considered as defensiveness. The emotion, which usually includes feelings of humiliation, sadness and anger is triggered when you sense that someone is criticizing you. There could be certain reasons behind someone’s defensive behaviour. The following are some common reasons: 1) Response to insecurity or fear For instance, if someone was…

Important tips to deal with narcissistic rage — Narcissists always need approval and admiration from other people. This is why, when they don’t get constant approval, it triggers their hidden feelings of shame that prompt them to lash out and show intense outrage reactions without considering the other person’s feelings into account. Most of the time, the narcissist’s…

What Texting Habits Say About Someone’s Attachment Style — The way of someone’s texting or texting habits can reveal that person’s attachment style. According to Dr Romanoff, someone’s anxious or avoidant attachment style can influence their texting habit and texting compatibility with their partner. For instance, Anxious Attachment Style People with this attachment style like to use texting to feel close to…