2 Attachment Styles And Their Texting Habits

What Texting Habits Say About Someone’s Attachment Style

2 min readNov 26, 2022
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The way someone’s texting or texting habits can reveal that person’s attachment style.

According to Dr Romanoff, someone’s anxious or avoidant attachment style can influence their texting habit and texting compatibility with their partner. For instance,

Anxious Attachment Style

People with this attachment style like to use texting to feel close to their partner and to feel safe in the relationship. They view texting as a tool to strengthen their connection.

Besides, their texting assures them that everything is going smoothly in their relationship. In other words, texting provides them with concrete evidence that their partner values them.

So, if their partner doesn’t reply to their messages, they feel rejected or become worried about where their relationship stands. They might even think that their partner is avoiding them or somehow is upset with them. They might even get anxious if they don’t receive any reply from their partner.

Avoidant Attachment Style

People with this attachment style prefer to have freedom and diversity. It means they value their…




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